Believe it
or not, your toddler’s volume isn’t turned up high to annoy you, but because
she’s exploring the power of the voice, and experimenting with what she can do
with it.
And why does
she always let rip when you’re at the supermarket or big hall? It’s because,
there’s a lovely echoing effect when you scream in big open space!
Some
toddlers scream whenever they want their parents attention it’s their way of
saving, “Hey, look at me!” others scream when they want something they can’t
have, such as a biscuit or a friend’s toy. In that case the shrieking means, “I
want my way. Give it .to me now!”
Shouting at
your toddler to lower her voice won’t help. It’ll just send the message that
whoever shouts loudest wins. Your best bet is to avoid situation that tempt
your toddler to raise her voice and to divert her attention when she does
scream Here are some ideas:
Pick toddler-friendly item and
places
Whenever you can, work around
your toddler and her sleep, and food needs. Try to make sure she’s well rested
and head a bite to eat before you leave the house. If you were tired and
hungry, you wouldn’t have the patience for shopping, either.
When you’re out with your
toddler, stay away from quiet, intimate or formal places. Instead, go where
other families go.